tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post3638694068277063794..comments2024-03-19T08:40:36.481+11:00Comments on Life with Aspergers: International ADHD Awareness WeekGavin Bollardhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13833941398375568706noreply@blogger.comBlogger15125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-25373786894921744242017-05-13T09:34:38.054+10:002017-05-13T09:34:38.054+10:00My son has ASD and ADD and they certainly can and ...My son has ASD and ADD and they certainly can and do exist together in some people.<br /><br />My other son also has ADD and has ASD tendencies!<br /><br />My two daughters also have ASD tendencies and one is bi-polar officially and also ADD we suspect.<br /><br />This may all sound bad but I find my kids fascinating and of course my husband and I are like them in many ways. We are all a bit out there but I don't consider our difference to be a disability. The opposite really. We are sensitive,caring, and understanding of all thinking styles. We are just not into dinner parties or big social gatherings!<br /><br />Love your BLOG Gavin,<br />KathleenKathleenphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08453870885470936378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-71356759815838795322017-05-13T09:23:37.619+10:002017-05-13T09:23:37.619+10:00Lovin this BLOG.Thanks Gavin.
My husband and I h...Lovin this BLOG.Thanks Gavin. <br /><br />My husband and I have four kids( 17yrs to 23yrs). One is officially ASD, two have strong ASD tendencies and the youngest is the most NT- but I suspect she is faking it! HAhaha. As for my hubby and me, we are probably both somewhere on the spectrum.<br /><br />Regarding this ADD discussion, our eldest has been diagnosed with ADD for only a few years and it was such a relief when he figured out what was going on there. Since being on dexamphedamine, his ability to organise himself has improved 100%. He is a smart kid, now in his 4th year of a Law degree but he was struggling to get to his exams in the first year on time and having studied for them. <br /><br />Our other son (the Aspie) also has a ADD diagnosis which came only recently many years after his HFA one at 2yrs. He takes Ritalin as he has a pediatrician rather than a Psychiatrist (I think peds don't prescribe Dex). He says that he is much better at getting school work done on the Ritalin. <br /><br />Kathleen<br /><br />Kathleenphttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08453870885470936378noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-33714521591120767352016-03-14T03:13:33.574+11:002016-03-14T03:13:33.574+11:00I'm an Aspie, but before I was finally diagnos...I'm an Aspie, but before I was finally diagnosed as one I had been diagnosed as having pretty severe ADD/ADHD. As such, I had been placed on such meds. But, given that I'm an Aspie, what this did was make me over-hyper-focus on my special interests. This was both good and bad, depending on the interest. And it ultimately became a decisive blow to my personal relationships. I also think that ADD/ADHD meds further dulled my ability to perceive and express emotions. <br /><br />I'm no longer on such meds. Now I'm on anti-psychotic and anti-seizure and tho Aspergers is not that these really really seem to help with the distraction, confusion and excitability. The end result is that I can focus, but in a more natural way. It's like there's less background noise caused by hyper-sensitivities. So that makes me wonder if, say you were extremely hyper-sensitive, a pin dropping could not only be distracting it could be startling. Too much stimuli coming from too many directions and you may seem ADD/ADHD. The meds I was transitioned to were not sedative and did not dull the senses but instead helped make sense out of them. <br /><br />Before I had been diagnosed as ADD/ADHD I was diagnosed as anxiety disorder. And went through those associated meds. But those dulled my senses and lowered my IQ. <br /><br />Now I don't have to worry about that either. And the amount of anti-psichotic anti-seizure meds needed are very small, unlike what psicotuc people or people with seizures normally would take. But it does the trick. <br /><br />Later on I discovered a supplement called Noopept, which had helped me immensely with the interpretation of social nuance and emotions and the expression thereof. <br /><br />As proof, I have been promoted by several layers and am now a director the business development of an European space services program. <br /><br />I know that there are many of you out there who don't believe in meds. I believe in meds, to the least degree that they are effective, along with constant self investigation, such as reading these blogs, watching YouTube and reading books about Aspergers and 'high-functioning' autism to learn the most possible about the condition. I've taken it on as a special interest and it's helped incredibly with my self actualization and happiness. <br /><br />I have been taking these meds, under doctor supervision, and this supplement for three years now and it has made such a difference. Miguel Palaciohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02311154354365423829noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-21365382096038983022012-03-17T15:04:35.183+11:002012-03-17T15:04:35.183+11:00As an adult woman 45, just recently diagnosed with...As an adult woman 45, just recently diagnosed with ADHD, THANK you for your thoughtful words about ADHD!9Chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04823805839612440695noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-88846022718512956512012-02-28T14:27:12.843+11:002012-02-28T14:27:12.843+11:00It's sad how many people can be so insensitive...It's sad how many people can be so insensitive when it comes to those families with an ADHD member. Parents are directly blamed for having a child who has behavior problems. They do not even consider the possibilities of them having to suffer such disorders.<br />The difficult thing about having ADHD is not having to be properly diagnosed by a doctor. There are still parents who are oblivious to ADD/ADHD and fails to understand and relate properly to their kids who has it. It is essential for us parents to <a href="http://www.add-adhd-teen-help.com/add-adhd/what-a-parent-should-know-about-adhd-behavior-problems.html" rel="nofollow">know more</a> about the behavior problems of our kids and how it may be related to ADHD.Shiella Weischnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-45747051416782684522011-10-21T13:36:43.874+11:002011-10-21T13:36:43.874+11:00"up to 58% of the individuals diagnosed with ..."up to 58% of the individuals diagnosed with autism and 85% of those diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome tend to meet full criteria for ADHD as well"<br />Canadian ADHD Practice Guidelines (caddra.ca)Ralph Doncasterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00037504544742962130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-31843312638713063302011-10-21T10:56:56.363+11:002011-10-21T10:56:56.363+11:00@NT Bird: I have a formal ADHD diagnosis, and my d...@NT Bird: I have a formal ADHD diagnosis, and my doctor agrees with my Aspergers self-diagnosis.<br /><br />The lack of focus in ADHD vs the hyperfocus of ASD may lead some to think you can't have both. I can focus on details of challenging things for hours or days; I think that's the Aspergers at play. I procrastinate and have difficulty focusing on things like doing my taxes; that's the ADHD at play.<br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yfkg0VWx3rM" rel="nofollow">Barkley talking about hyperfocus</a><br /><br />Having both together can be a recipe for volatile relationships. You've got a short temper(ADHD) and you have no f'ing clue what your partner is feeling (Aspergers). When they are undiagnosed, your partner thinks you just don't give a f*ck!Ralph Doncasterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00037504544742962130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-73459359497893774732011-10-21T07:28:03.770+11:002011-10-21T07:28:03.770+11:00Im kinda new to the ASD world, my spouse is being ...Im kinda new to the ASD world, my spouse is being tested for it now but the reality is that this is what he has. He also has INSANE ADHD and they are wondering if the ADHD medication doesn't help him much because he's actually had Aspergers all along!?! We actually read something that said some psychs don't even think its possible for ADHD and ASD to coexist, but that doesn't seem right to me...what do you think of that?ForestMamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12739304759858839283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-84691107386431911022011-10-20T18:02:20.509+11:002011-10-20T18:02:20.509+11:00@Anonymous. That changes things. On no account sho...@Anonymous. That changes things. On no account should ANYONE be given a "disabled" label simply because they have ADHD.<br /><br />The word is different NEVER disabled.Gavin Bollardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13833941398375568706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-20735758751976313542011-10-20T16:41:59.674+11:002011-10-20T16:41:59.674+11:00Thanks, i guess why i asked the question originall...Thanks, i guess why i asked the question originally is to understand if my daughter (with the dual diagnosis) is to be considered a disabled person? And if so what will this mean? Will she be part of 'maintstream' society?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-91504327477218233442011-10-20T10:45:21.200+11:002011-10-20T10:45:21.200+11:00@Ralph, Thank you for the link it was very informa...@Ralph, Thank you for the link it was very informative.<br /><br />It's hard to say whether a specific difference is a benefit or a disability since it varies from one person or one situation to another.<br /><br />It's good to be able to see the positive side of things though - and I did allude to that when I talked about why it was a product of evolution. <br /><br />You'll find my example described better <a href="http://life-with-aspergers.blogspot.com/2008/11/finding-boundaries-of-borderline.html" rel="nofollow">here</a> - just scroll down to the bit marked "The Deer Example"Gavin Bollardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13833941398375568706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-47775274648218789672011-10-20T03:14:58.415+11:002011-10-20T03:14:58.415+11:00Legally ADHD is a disability. In contrast to Gavi...Legally ADHD is a disability. In contrast to Gavin, I do see some clear benefits to ADHD. I wrote <a href="http://addralph.blogspot.com/2011/10/is-adhd-gift-or-curse.html" rel="nofollow">a blog post about the "gift or curse" question</a>.Ralph Doncasterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00037504544742962130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-87212332537960562692011-10-19T23:53:06.092+11:002011-10-19T23:53:06.092+11:00Like autism and many other conditions (eg bipolar ...Like autism and many other conditions (eg bipolar disorder, schizophrenia), ADHD is a spectrum disorder. It is possible to be a "little bit" ADHD, or a lot ADHD, and anywhere in between.<br /><br />And like autism and bipolar disorder, it is highly genetic. Also, smoking or alcohol during pregnancy can interact with the candidate genes and magnify their effect.IanMKennynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-58712089779651139852011-10-18T23:05:03.122+11:002011-10-18T23:05:03.122+11:00It's hard to say exactly what ADHD is but I do...It's hard to say exactly what ADHD is but I do believe that it's a naturally evolved trait.<br /><br />You can observe ADHD traits in animals. Dogs sometimes show it but more importantly, so do animals which move in herds. <br /><br />The distractability comes in very handy when it comes to noticing a creeping predator on the edge of the herd.<br /><br />It's no good if the entire herd has ADHD but having a few individuals is very healthy.<br /><br />I think there are very good reasons in nature for ADHD but that these are no longer needed in modern society. As a result, ADHD is now being viewed as a disability.<br /><br />It's difficult to see any clear benefit for ADHD in western society. <br /><br />Aspergers is almost the opposite. There's not a lot of use for aspergers traits in a herd but in our modern technological society, the traits are actually quite useful. Our best scientist tend to have a lot of aspergian traits.<br /><br />Unfortunately, society as a whole is yet to recognize and exploit the benefits of aspergers, though there are some companies out there (notably computing companies) who have an explicit policy on the employment of aspies.Gavin Bollardhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13833941398375568706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4841851020927689161.post-89912415658064982042011-10-18T21:49:35.808+11:002011-10-18T21:49:35.808+11:00This is great, i finally get what adhd really is. ...This is great, i finally get what adhd really is. I have a question: do you think adhd is a disability? Is it a 'special need?' or is it a 'character trait' that some people have?" i would love to know your answer to this about adhd and aspergers as well..?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com