Although the answer to this question may seem simple, it recurs with alarming regularity on aspie forums everywhere. Often, it is confused with the aspie's ability to find a partner or the famous aspie empathy problems - these are different things altogether which I'll hopefully discuss in follow-up posts. Emotional Behavior in Aspies Aspies are very capable of loving but they often confuse the issue by adopting an altogether too rigid view of love. Despite popular mis-belief, aspies are generally fairly emotional beings. We have intense feelings of happiness and even more intense feelings of sadness. The smallest triggers can produce huge emotional responses in us. While a bad day at work may make an NT grumpy, it could make an aspie feel suicidal. Similarly, when something good happens an aspie may seem to be over-reacting or overly happy. Most aspie adults have long since learned to control excessive displays of happiness but it's very apparent in aspie children...
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Thanks so much for the wonderful shout out regarding my stimming series! You are so kind, my friend! I was wondering all of a sudden where all the page hits were coming from. :-)
I responded to your comments on Part 1 of the series and made a correction based on your insight and rethinking my own observations with Ryan. :-)
Thanks again! I am very flattered! Your blog is always a tremendous resource of well-thought out information, insight and commentary and it means a lot to me that you noticed my writing too!
Smiles and happiness,
Karen
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