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This page is intended to provide you with ways to get to more content since the new blog layout makes it difficult to access the side-content now.

Easy Access to lots of Articles

There's a lot of material on this site but sometimes it's hard to look through it all. Now there's an easier way -- head over to the Life-With-Asperger's section of my website and to access topics and articles more easily. 




Series Articles

May of my posts are designed to be read in a particular order.
The series articles page collects them together to make this easier.

My FREE Book

I used to write for a site called Special-Ism. It's closed now but I've saved my posts from it and they're available in a book called;


The Special-Ism Posts (Volumes 1 and 2): Tips for Parenting Kids with Asperger's Syndrome

It's available in the following locations



It's also available from Amazon but unfortunately they don't seem to allow free books, so it costs a little;



Other Autism Websites and Blogs

This list is probably a little out of date but I don't have time to check it right now. 

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