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What is Stimming and what does it feel like?

According to wikipedia, stimming is;

"a jargon term for a particular form of stereotypy, a repetitive body movement (often done unconsciously) that self-stimulates one or more senses in a regulated manner. It is shorthand for self-stimulation, and a stereotypy is referred to as stimming under the hypothesis that it has a function related to sensory input."

The wikipedia article then goes on to propose some theories about the function of stimming and how it is designed to provide nervous system arousal. The theory being that it helps autistic people "normalize".

I'm not sure how much I believe that theory - I helps us relax and it feels good... but normalize?? Not sure.

The most commonly cited form of stimming is body rocking. Such is the prevalence of this form of stimming in Hollywood films concerning autism that you could be forgiven for thinking that autistic people stim by rocking most of the time.

How far does stimming go?
Stimming is much more than just rocking. It also includes;
  • Hand Clasping

  • Flapping

  • Knee bobbing

  • Finger Tapping or Drumming

  • Spinning Toys


I'm going to go out on a limb on this one and suggest that stimming should also include a few other behaviors. The wikipedia article has already suggested that in some cases, stimming includes deliberate self-harm, such as cutting oneself and head banging.

I believe that stimming also includes the following;
  • Making funny noises

  • Facial Tics and expressions

  • Certain types of singing, talking or babbling

  • Nail (and finger) Biting


My eldest child is particularly bad with the vocal stimming. Especially first thing in the morning on a weekend when you're trying to get a little extra sleep.

How does it feel?
Stimming is often an involuntary thing and we aren't always aware that we're doing it. Personally, stimming by rocking is quite uncommon for me because this is socially unacceptable. I don't think I ever really needed this form of stimming much anyhow.

At its simplest, the stimming allows you to concentrate on sensitivity and relax the thinking parts of the brain. In an Aspie, being able to stop thinking, even for a short while, is bliss.

Stimming is a very good relaxant and this probably explains why it is more often seen in stressful situations.

Of course, it also feels good.

As a parent, should you try to stop stimming?
Not really... No. (well, sometimes).

I think it's fair to say that stopping stimming could lead to stress in a child and also that it could cause them to change to a less visible means of stimming, such as self-harm.

It's probably worthwhile videoing your child while stimming and letting them see what the undesirable behavior is. Perhaps you can get them to be more discreet. Remember though, that they won't always be aware that they're doing it at first.

If stimming behaviors are causing your children harm then you should discuss them with your paediatrician.

Comments

Gavin Bollard said…
Pretty much everyone stims in one form or another. Stimming by itself doesn't mean that you're on the autism spectrum. People on the spectrum tend to stim more often and more noticibly but being on the spectrum is defined by a bunch of other attributes.

Many stims can be "Trained out" but not all. Some things, such as nail biting, head-banging and rocking are extremely difficult to remove because there's no way to separate the person from the stimming object. One thing that is clear however is that negative reinforcement is not very effective when it comes to removing stims. Negative reinforcement heightens the anxiety of an individual and makes them more likely to stim, not less.
Anonymous said…
I think my boyfriend has aspergers but he blurts out loud noises .i think this may be more of a tick tho..makes me jump!
batchboy said…
Hi, anyone do hair pulling stimming here? 4 decades of the hair end crackling sound near ear.
Anonymous said…
I know this was posted forever ago but you are the only other person I've seen mention this particular thing. I have the same compulsion. Only with fabric. It started when I was a baby with my baby blanket. I am not retarded but I was diagnosed with ADHD as a child. Sometimes the compulsion to rub fabric is so strong I can't ignore it and so I spend a lot of time with my comforter. Lately I feel like I have been regressing as I usually can't stop. My thumb and middle finger have become a encased in cracking callouses and my shoulder is so sore from the repetitive movement, and pushing extra hard to get the stim through the callous. I don't know why I can't just stop. It's like the feeling on my fingers is part of me and I feel incomplete if I'm not doing it. I actually have friends and a social life and I can understand peoples emotions well which makes me think there is no way I could have Autism.. but understanding is one thing I find that reciprocating emotion often doesn't come naturally. I often have to consciously alter tone of voice and facial expression because I know that the way I would naturally speak doesn't match the the persona that people expect from me based on my values. This makes me wonder if I am one of the cases of ASD who teach themselves to interact with people to further personal goals. Either way, I'm still rubbing the blanket. I'm probably going to get carpal tunnel
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