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Article: Especially for Grandparents of Children With Asperger Syndrome

Update: Nancy Mucklow, the Author of this article, has her own web site and it contains a lot of other good information - You are encouraged to visit it;
Talking Sense: http://www.nancymucklow.com/talkingsense/

I've just read the following article (thanks DietCoke for making me aware of it) and I figured it was worth linking to;

It's in several places on the internet so I've just chosen the best formatted version to link to;

Especially for Grandparents of Children With Asperger Syndrome
By Nancy Mucklow
http://asdrendrewolf.org/apovonautism/letter.php

In any case, the letter is great reading and touches more than a few nerves I've experienced both as a child (from my grandparents) and as a father (from my parents and parents-in-law).

It's worth a read and well worth forwarding onto your aspie's grandparents.

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Anonymous said…
Great resource, thanks for posting the link.
August 24, 2008 at 1:08 AM
Anonymous said…
Hi, Nancy Mucklow here. I wrote that article almost 10 years ago now! It sure makes the rounds! Thanks for posting about it. It's still up on Barb Kirby's OASIS site, but I have it posted on my own website as well, at www.nancymucklow.com/talkingsense. Great blogwork, I hope you're able to keep it up!
February 4, 2009 at 2:42 PM
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