My latest post out at Special-ism is about changing your child's behavior to attract less attention. I'm always encouraging people within the autism community to be proud of themselves and to be themselves. The problem is that behavior that is too far "outside the norm" can draw a lot of unwanted attention.
The best thing to do is to tread a cautious middle-ground and that's the point of the post, to show ways that normal autistic behaviors can be modified to become less noticeable.
Hop over to Special-ism for a read;
Change Your Child’s Behavior to Attract Less Attention